Okay so she just hasn’t been doing it for ya huh? Or maybe there is someone else? Or you don’t think it will last because of circumstances. Or whatever the case might be, it’s inevitable that you need to quit her. You hear a lot of info on getting a girl but nothing on how to quit her. So here I am stepping up to the plate.
Statistically women get over break ups two times faster than men. A couple reasons are because they talk and cry it out to their friend’s (support groups). Usually us men don’t like to share our feelings too much, so we keep it bottled up inside. So as you can imagine we hurt over the breakup much longer. Think of your dream girl (I’ll wait a minute)… Okay, Does your current girl match that picture? If not, why are you with her? You need to quit her! That simple! If you think it’s time to let go, then just let go. There’s no point in looking back to what you have already lost. Cut your losses and let’s go! There is plenty out there! I know sometimes it’s hard to say bye to a girlfriend because she’s also a friend, so often times we want to stay in the relationship to keep from hurting a friend. But what this actually does is force both of you to settle for less than the best. Even though you don’t think your doing her an injustice by staying with her, you actually are because if she was with someone who actually had a true romantic love for her he would treat her beyond just good, which is at best what your doing! So in fact by leaving her, yeah she’ll be upset for awhile but it will give her the chance to find that someone who will treat her better than her dreams.
Don’t burn the bridge with this girl, because you never know what might come of it later down the road. Breakups are hard and you may not be liked but if you do it right you will be respected. The right way to break up is set up at time in person and tell her that you are done and tell her why. But if you choose to do it the easy way, you will not be liked or respected. The wrong way is if you just never say anything at all, or you tell her over text, email, or phone. Yes, this is much easier to do because you don’t have to see the person but it is wrong. You owe them that much to tell them in person! Goodbyes hurt the most when people leave without saying them.
When you do the ‘break up’ don’t give her sympathy, trust me she can live without you. And if you believe that, she will believe that, which will be the best thing you could do for her. Remember you don’t want to burn bridges. Giving sympathy insinuates she can’t live without you. And that is the worst thing you can do to someone’s head, is tell them they can’t have something they can’t live without and just deal with it.
Think about this, good-byes make you think, they make you realize what you’ve had, what you’ve lost, and what you’ve taken for granted. But break ups don’t need to be ‘make up’, sometimes relationships end for you to wake up. When you do the final ‘break up’ go hook up with as many women as you can! Don’t sit around and think of what you had, because this is a downward spiral. Find someone new and better! GOOD LUCK!! (you will need it:)